Birthday in 1 month 2 days time ya!

Still thinking what to do to celebrate it. But of course i'm encountering difficulties like who to invite, how to celebrate etc etc

Problems:
1: The pple to invite: who? I wouldn't mind inviting some girls along with the usual pple but that leads to no 2 problem

2: What type of food?
Guess it can be a buffet (but i believe the ladies might not like it)
BBQ? Might work out i guess. Cleaning up might be a problem and the cooking too

3. Where?

My aunt suggested my house but then again....it's a whee bit small
maybe a park like west coast or something or a restaurent..

4. Timing:
Univ term juz started so i'm pretty sure pple would be pretty busy studying (BOOKWORMS!) or working or sleeping So probably most wouldn't turn up i think

Come to think of it, my 21st birthday would be the 1 yr where

a) It's not during exams time (like it has been since the age 7-18)

b) When i was not in NS.

(age b4 7 i can't remember what my birthdays were like, blank memory)

Oh joy. Swoon with joy.