Thursday, February 15, 2007

So Ms Melissa Sim has flown off to Sydney. Zzz..wat a day to spend V day. Going with hx to changi to see her off. There went 3 yrs of attempts of even trying to date/talk to her

a) Tried calling (shi bai!*failure* ignored/missed calls 3 yrs ago)
b) tried sms-ing. (also ignored)
c) Email (after 3 no replies i also got the hint)
d) last choice!!! MSN!! (ignored also for 3 yrs straight. Vic:" hi".. waits for reply (sometimes sees her nick changes etc then *poof!* zz..offline!)

In other words i was sending off a friend who was supposed to be closed to us (hx and i) but while going home i realised how well did i know her? The answer? not very well. So was i saying bb to a good friend who was going to sydney or to a friend whom i knew very little of? That of course brought back to mind hx;s word of why were we going to the airport in the 1st place? Of course this is to say that i regretted it. But things might have been different. Of course a lot of pple would have said the same thing in many of the situations in their lifes

Of course i'm seeing all these through my own perspectives which is naturally greatly clouded. If 100 see the same event/action, there would be at least 75 or even 100 different views/perspectives on that particular event.

So she might have been too busy to a) reply emails (only tried this 3 times ) b) reply msn messges. But err...being too busy for 3 yrs in a row even while on holidays a bit flimsy excuse sometimes. Oh well...That's life

Btw hx photos uploaded on my friendster acct. I will mail them to u some days later.

1 comment:

Senor_Hybrido said...

You don't date a girl who doesn't show any sign of attraction to you. You don't date a girl who doesn't do so even after repeated hints. If you do that, you start to push into the boundaries of "Annoyance".

Patience is a virtue. In the meantime, use your hands. ROFLMAO!!!

One trick I tried recently (especially after 10pm on a weekday) is to say somethin like "Wow you're on quite late for a weekday no sch tmr?" If shes been doing that occasionally before, pretend u didnt notice. Lots of ppl ignore most of their friendlist all the time. If it works, you know she is at least willing to talk to you, and she's a nice girl. If she doesn't then forget it. Shes a bitch for pretending she forgot to reply you. The few girls I tried on did reply but I didnt bother doing the same after that day. I'm not interested in girls who are as old as me or older :D

So therefore, you SHOULDNT EVEN HAVE SEEN HER OFF!! OMFG UR BAT FUCK INSANE!!! APE SHIT CRAZY!!! SHES A BITCH AND YOU ARE DENYING TO YOURSELF THAT!! She may have talked nicely to you before but thats only becos you're right there in front of her. To ignore you would be incredibly impolite. But for everything else, excuses can easily be found.

I dont know about hx but I can imagine she did jus about the same to him. Probably to a different degree, but she's still a bitch for purposely ignoring friends. And don't try to tell yourself I'm wrong here. To purposely ignore someone is a sign of the "ASSHOLE syndrome". And it's not that hard to figure out someone is doing that, as you should have learnt already. How can you miss an MSN message when it's right there the fucking huge msg box in your dam screen? Unless she thinks you've forgotten about the conversation you tried to start, and closes the box even though you're ONLINE. In which case, she doesn't want to talk to you, because if she did want to, she would have tried to revive the conversation and apologize for the late reply or something along that line.

So voila, my mood dampener is done. Honesty is brutal, and the truth hurts. Find another girl. Don't just think about her looks. A chio bitch is still a bitch.